tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021899542494706805.post4227898215265212086..comments2021-04-07T21:51:33.142-07:00Comments on {cypress and oak}: Ah choo!Juleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00862681475383911164noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021899542494706805.post-4651486770628115362008-09-24T09:55:00.000-07:002008-09-24T09:55:00.000-07:00aimee:Thanks for the comments! We don't expect an...aimee:<BR/>Thanks for the comments! We don't expect anyone to return the hankies(!), and we wouldn't even hand them out. I think we'd put them in a basket near the guestbook for anyone who wants to take one. Even if they don't cry (and I expect most people won't!), we hope it would be a nice, old fashioned way to remember the day. Does that make it seem less presumptuous?Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00862681475383911164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021899542494706805.post-60238994543199320972008-09-24T08:24:00.000-07:002008-09-24T08:24:00.000-07:00I do agree with your Mom that it is a little presu...I do agree with your Mom that it is a little presumptuous to assume that people will cry at your wedding.<BR/><BR/>I don't mean any disrespect to you, but you need to realize that for all but 3 or 4 people who attend your wedding, it will be just another day. Just one more wedding to attend, another gift to buy, etc. That doesn't mean that you and your fiance aren't special to each of them, but no one is as involved in a wedding as the bride and groom.<BR/><BR/>Most people will sit and listen, and some may tear up a little bit. It will be your parents and your very best friends who cry. But most of the people at your wedding will not cry. <BR/><BR/>Again, I don't mean to be harsh... but this is not such a thing of pivotal importance to most of the people at your wedding. I especially think it would be a bad idea to hang out vintage handkerchiefs from your relatives if they are of any importance to you. No one is going to wipe their nose and give the handkerchief back to you.Aimeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09551509288397217282noreply@blogger.com